Thursday, March 24, 2016

Kindnesses - Walking the Walk


Recently I commented how wonderful was the story about how a 7-year-old boy being treated for acute lymphoblastic leukemia was made an honorary police officer (link to WABC article). Everyday people are doing special things like this for sick children they don't know, yet care about; most of the time these kindnesses go unreported. Sometime soon I'll write about the postcards my son received, but today I'd like to relay another kindness afforded him.

Chemo attacks quickly-dividing cells. This is how it targets cancer, but it also goes after other, healthy cells -- thus hair loss and so on. One of the many side-effects of chemo is that it causes strange sensations and muscular weakness in the arms and legs. It diminishes a child’s willingness to be ambulatory or active. And so, a seemingly healthy, energetic child can melt away to be confined to a wheelchair in just a few weeks.

Muscular deterioration has been a major issue in our family. My son has quickly gone from being a runner to only being able to walk with the assistance of a walking stick or a wheelchair (and can barely manage steps). We have talked to nurses and friends about this. They share my worries about him losing self-confidence via a loss of mobility. As many of you know, self-confidence is the best medicine for managing chemo side-effects.

Our worries reached the ears and hearts of a local gym. Yesterday my son was extended a 6-month gym membership at Midway Fitness. He was greeted with a cheery smile and the moral support that he will need to fight his way back to health. This simple and yet generous gift will be life-changing for him.

Now not everyone can offer a gym membership to someone fighting cancer, but if you are looking to do something for someone, try offering to walk with them (and not just metaphorically). Help them get out and feel normal, even if that means pushing a wheelchair or shuffling along with them. Thank you to the people at Midway Fitness and Racquetball for the offer to walk with us.

-PG Somerset

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